A Connection Coach for Gay and Bi Men
For those who want to feel less alone and more alive.
61% of gay and bi men feel lonely and disconnected. That’s three times the national average.
Loneliness is rising, and even when we’re out or surrounded by people, it can still feel like no one truly sees us.
The real question isn’t “what’s wrong with me?” It’s “why can’t I find the kind of connection or relationship I want — with myself and others?”
I’m Adam. I’ve spent the last 12+ years helping people connect deeply, honestly, and without a facade. You can heal without code-switching or pretending. We just need space to be real.
My work creates spaces where people can experience real connection. That’s how transformation happens.
That’s how I healed, and that’s how you can too.
What You’ll Find Here:
1-on-1 sessions (online or in-person)
Small virtual groups for gay and bi men
Tools and techniques to connect more deeply with others and yourself
This is a comfortable space to be uncomfortable.
Be seen, heard, & validated. 🌈
Work With Someone Who Understands
I’m Adam, a gay man, husband and parent, who founded HearMe and Cuddlist, two of the largest platforms for human-to-human connection. I’ve trained thousands in empathetic listening and worked with countless gay and bi men navigating loneliness and the challenge of building meaningful, lasting relationships.I know what it feels like to crave real connection. I also know how powerful connections can be when they finally happen.Connection is the solution.
For years, my mission has been to address loneliness and disconnection.
I’ve done that through building HearMe, a platform that’s connected hundreds of thousands of people to real-time emotional support, and Cuddlist, which helped redefine safe, affirming touch. Both have reached national scale, transforming how people experience empathy and connection.
The hundreds of clients I’ve spoken with — and the emails I’ve received from people sharing their profound experiences — proved to me the simple, yet radical, power of presence and listening.
Now, I’m bringing that experience home — focusing specifically on gay and bi men.
As a gay man myself, I know how deeply loneliness and disconnection can run, even when life looks good from the outside. I know what it’s like to keep parts of yourself hidden to feel safe, and the toll that takes over time.
Testimonials
"Adam guides with clarity and compassion, offering support while honoring each person’s autonomy. He naturally spots areas for growth and invites insight, helping others better understand themselves and their path. What sets him apart is how he shares from lived experience in a way that empowers others to embrace their authentic selves."
Rick Jackson. - LCSW-BACS, LAC, CCGC
"Working with Adam felt like more than therapy—it was a real conversation grounded in shared experience, empathy, and gentle accountability. His thoughtful guidance and personal insight helped me reflect, take meaningful action, and feel truly supported as a single gay man navigating loneliness."
Don P
Media Mentions
Featured in hundreds of podcasts, articles, and interviews, Adam is tackling the loneliness epidemic:
“Adam Lippin has been ahead of the curve in understanding human connection.”
— Life Uncloseted Podcast
“Adam's passion for human connection is palpable. What he has built is a reflection of who he is. His work is changing lives by giving people a space to be heard and understood.”
— 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk Podcast
“Sometimes the simple act of talking to someone who truly listens can be transformative.”
— Sarah Sloat, Inverse Media
What This Is?
This isn’t therapy. This is a space to practice vulnerability and human connection.
Sometimes we protect ourselves without even realizing it. This space is where we check in — and gently stretch into deeper connection.
This is a comfortable space to be uncomfortable. To practice in the presence of others — where we grow through honesty, reflection, and shared experience. Connection is the solution.
For Gay and Bi Men Ready to Reconnect with Themselves and Others
Be Empowered
Be empowered to connect and reconnect. Connect with yourself, your deeper needs, and the kind of connections that you’re craving.
Feel Happier
Stretch, reflect, and connect with other gay and bi men to build relationships that’ll make you feel deeply satisfied
Connect Deeper
My sessions help you dig deeper and connect beyond the surface. To connect deeper means to see and be seen in a deeper and more valid way.
Ready to Start?
1-on-1 Sessions
Virtual or in-person (Hudson, NY): Join me for a 60-minute session where we get to know each other. You have my full attention as we talk through whatever’s on your mind, whether it’s a relationship, career, or anything else you’re carrying. Prices start at $85/hour.
Fee: $85 per session
Group Experience
Virtual, 6-week course: Join me for weekly 90-minute calls with other gay and bi men working through the same messy but human feelings we all carry. Learn, contribute, and find your path in a group setting. The first cohort starts Tuesday, July 22 at 7 PM ET.
Fee: $220 for the course
Prefer to reach out directly?
📧 [email protected]